Few weeks ago, I finally realized about something else and I hate to say this, but it took me long time to understand what perfection really means. You know how hard it is to find ideal woman is real hard these days? How do I know when there is a perfect woman out there for me? How do I know whether my dream girl is the ideal woman for me? I thought about it, here's what I've come to conclusion: Perfection is an ideal situation where everything is just the way it should be, no flaws, no irregularities. So basically, a perfect state or condition, there is seamless integration and functioning of all elements and components. So basically, what I am saying is that.... there are no such things as perfection. It is not possible. I think we've spent all of our life striving for perfection. It's just an illusion to us. I learned that there are no such things as a perfect woman. No woman is perfect. The ideal woman is not a perfect woman, but one who comes close. By understanding the concept of perfect, it helps you put your priorities in the right places. I do believe though that there is a woman out there who comes close to perfections than other. I do believe that the closer the woman is to perfection, better it is for you and the relationship.
So I had to ask myself this question: What makes a woman the ideal woman for me? I had to sit down and write down criteria and I realized that everyone just wanted to be happy. That’s' the most important thing... be happy. What I yearn for is a loving and caring woman, who is honest and trustworthy in relationship. I want a lady, who is committed to the relationship 110 percent. When certain situation arises, she has to be able to deal with the situation and be content with it. I want someone who believes in sharing and caring for other people. Be considerate of other people's feelings and know when to help out. I want a lady who is God-Fearing woman, who attends church with me. She doesn't have to be a perfect Christian, but at least make effort to be the best Christian. Most important of all, she has to be simple. Lead a simple lifestyle. Virtues of a woman lasts lifetime... Outward appearance fades with time. I think I finally understand what I want in a woman. Maybe it’s too late, maybe it's not... We'll see.
